How a Woman Can Be Godly and Sensual At the Same Time with Tammy Leitzel
Meet Our Guest:
is a sensuality expert and empowerment coach who helps women who regain their confidence and sense of self-worth after relationship or sexual trauma. She teaches sensual self-expression in a safe and playful manner which helped 1000’s of women shed the past, leading them to feel greater levels of empowerment and self-expression. http://www.tammyleitzel.com
A Plea to All Women… Please recognize that nearly all of us have been feeling unloved and have internalized second class status, whether we’ve admitted that to ourselves or not. We’ve been mocked for our reactions, scolded for having emotions and criticized for anything inherently feminine. You MUST see this wound in order to fix it. Challenge centuries old assumptions that women are less than because we certainly are not. It’s important that you reclaim your true self – your playful, powerful, passionate, and purposeful self (what I call your Femessence). THAT is your sensual nature and it will be your guide post to your true self.
Seconded by Debbie Pokornik 😊
Raised as a Mennonite with strong patriarchal restrictions, Tammy is no stranger to how religion can interfere with your relationship to Self.
At 5 years old, Tammy remembers sitting in a pew between her Grandparents (who she adored) and listening to the preacher share a passage about women being subservient to men. She felt her Grandma stiffen and was confused by a rather smug look on her Grandfather’s face. Even at that young age Tammy knew that she disagreed and made a vow to her Grandma (and I’d argue, women in general) to do what she could to change that.
I remember under my breath I made a promise to my grandmother that I would say and do for her the things that she could not do for herself.
Tammy has already shared some powerful wisdom with us about shame and sexuality as it applies to our daughters on a previous show as well as how owning and operating your body allows you to reconnect with that vibrant and powerful part of yourself.
Today she came on the show to talk about being Godly while still owning your body or sensuality as we often refer to it.
You start by challenging assumptions that sensuality is bad or inherently something designed to make men fall. It’s not there so you can control others – it’s actually your feminine life force. It’s what we require to birth children into this world.
She went on to share how a simple thing like how you dress can be tied to this and then delved into the more risqué topic of surrender in the bedroom.
Patriarchal structures have trained us to be good girls and we lose that part of us that can actually be receptive and accepting of that side of ourselves. It’s important to take back that joy. When you treat sex like a duty you feel like a marionette on a string at the beck and call of your spouse. It does not have to be like that. Our relationships are actually many negotiations all throughout the day. Learn the skill of being able to surrender and be receptive.
Tune into the show to hear Tammy discuss these ideas in more depth and gain insights to start making changes for you and your kids today! Then head on over to wowfactorchallenge.com to pick up a copy of 3 Things You Must Know About Body Ownership.